But have they asked themselves, is this what my children want?
Have they asked their kid, is this what makes you happy?
It is indeed a parent's true happiness to see his kid grow and become successful in life. However, the most appropriate accomplishment must be to navigate his kid to the real meaning of success-- happiness.
Do not tame the spirit out of your children. Always be there for them but never force them to do anything they don't have the heart to.
~James Ruesch